Great Sunday Night at Cicada Club

Nothing and I mean nothing is as good as good food, great music and even greater company and how tough is it to get all that together. Well that is just what I did the other night right here in Los Angeles at the Cicada Club. My son Mike and I were the guest of...

Paradise Lost

Paradise Cove Beach Cafe, Malibu, California…I had decided to meet some friends at this Tourist Trap. When my son and I arrived the parking lot was not as full as it often is as it was early. I walk in and see my friends sitting in the worst booth in the...

Friedman and Friedman (and Friedman)

Whenever I need to have a good chuckle and maybe even a good laugh, I can always depend on my friend Ira Friedman of Friedman & Friedman. The only problem I have is this, if I want to speak to Ira on May 15, 2009 I will have to call and leave a message for him...

Judge Hank M. Goldberg

Some people can sit and watch “soaps,” I love to sit and watch and listen to judges, aka “bench officers,” the ones with the black robes who sit a few feet above the rest of us in courtrooms. Oh, I like state, federal and how about this,...

Nothing better than a hot pepper!

Many times in the course of providing security we are asked “what would you recommend” type questions. Well, I have always been a strong believer in entertaining myself while I was a cop when the legal opportunity would pop up in the course of taking bad...

Quotes and quips of the day

We at DesperateExes.com are always looking for good tips and thoughts for our readers and I love this one: When the law is against you, argue the facts, when the facts are against you, argue the law. When both are against you, pound the table and yell like hell! Carl...