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Christopher Titus said in December 5th, 2010 at 11:09 pm

In a society where women get a fairly free ride in a divorce and with custody of the kids (check the stats) I find your amazingly arrogant attitude part of the problem. My ex cheated, stole over 300k by forging my name on checks, lied to LAPD, claimed spousal abuse when none occurred and said I brutally beat my kids. AFTER I filed for divorce. She also won’t get a job and has a Gavron warning on her for over a year. Has defaulted on over 600k of debt and received over 900k in assets and support in just four years. She does not help with ANY of the kids expenses or their school. That you are such an unfair and unbalanced site is one of the reasons the system is so screwed up. This attitude is why so many children don’t have a consistent father figure and why they are used as pawns in divorce. You disgust me militant ex. You perpetuate the worst thing in divorce. Alimony is just another way to take womens power away. Hillary Clinton, Oprah, Martha Stewart and the millions of women who take care of their own business are role models for my daughter. When it comes to a real woman’s power I use my girlfriends mother as an example. Sharon got divorced five times. She has changed careers five times. She was vice president of AFLAC, started her own magazine then decided to get her masters degree in art and is now a professor at the American university of Kuwait. She is married again to a ex army colonel and ecstatic with her life instead of looking over her shoulder at her past relationship. She doesn’t give her exes one moment of thought and she doesn’t keep her past firmly planted in her future like the vampires of this site. Child support and alimony make sense for a few years so someone out of the workforce can get back in, but lifetime? There is a point after years when the non-working ex-wife is just a sad pathetic leech who wont find happiness because her check may stop. There is no joy waiting for the support check letting a man who doesn’t love you run your life. You should be speaking to the strength of women being self sufficient and not the worst part of the female that Shakespeare wrote about. Your bitterness is sickening and is causing you cancer, in your relationships and your whole life People fall in and out of love, why is it the man that has to pay for it? I asked a woman once why women are so vicious in divorce, she said ” You guys don’t hurt. You just move on and we want to make sure you feel horrible like we do.” You need to know that men are destroyed just like women but women are taught to be emotional, that its okay to cry. Men are taught to not show emotion, to MAN UP! So we do, in public, then we go home and curl up in a ball a sob. Men suicide rates are more than double in divorce (look it up) and its sites like this that perpetuate the horrific state our system is in. Be proud that you have helped keep kids from their fathers. Be proud that you’ve helped keep women stuck to a man that doesn’t love them by a financial umbilical cord. You are really making a difference. Wow. Now, as you suggest, I’m going to “fudge off”
Christopher

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Christopher Titus said in December 5th, 2010 at 11:15 pm

By the way Mrs Gibson raised all this mans kids and was obviously a big part of his success. Keeping him together during his many slips and addictions. She deserves half of the assets and 50% custody of their kids. That’s a partnership and totally acceptable. But that’s not enough for desperate exes is it?

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